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October 5, 2010

Gain Confidence Tips And Tricks

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: gain confidence, increase self-confidence, increase self-esteem, self esteem — jobself @ 7:21 pm

I was always somebody who had many confidence issues as I grew up, from a child, through to adulthood. I firmly believed that I had been dealt a very bad hand of cards and I often became rather down in the dumps. The issues that I had in my life were:

A bald patch the size of a ten pence piece on my head

A problem with my speech known as a stuttering or stammering

A weight problem, I was quite fat for my height

I am quite short for a male at five-foot-four

Certain people would take the mickey out of me, and their comments would hurt. I made sure that the people around me could not see the amount they were hurting me but inside I was full of anger and frustration.

I could not live life this indefinitely and aged 22 I decided to fight back. I decided I needed a big change in attitude and started to read books about life and about positive thinking etc. I was eager to become a success as I wanted to run by own business offering mobile workforce management solutions. I had spent far too long offering advice in the UK webmaster forums and needed a change.

These were the things I had to take on board:

It is not important what other people think of you, it is what you think that counts

You need to start to like yourself

There are various things about your person, you do not like but which you can not change. You therefore have to start accepting these things and realising that maybe there are other people in life who are more unfortunate than you.

You need to have respect for yourself

Do not accept second best in life

Be happy

Learn to relax

Treat yourself to some pleasures. Like a regular massage or reflexology.

I had managed to achieve a personal happiness by following the advice in the above paragraphs.

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March 22, 2010

How To Increase Self-Confidence

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: confidence, gain confidence, lack of self-belief, self esteem, self-belief, self-confidence — jobself @ 12:32 am

Do you lack confidence? Are you looking for advice and tips that could enable you to increase your self-esteem? If you have answered either or both of these questions in the positive then this article may well be of interest to you.

Throughout my childhood and teenage years I was a person who had a real lack of self-belief. In truth I did not particularly like myself. I was extremely jealous and envious of other people and what they seemingly had in comparison to me. They seemingly had it so easy where as for me life was a constant struggle. What I needed was to some how gain confidence.

I had a stutter you see which did make life unbearable at times. I did eventually, at the age of twenty-two, manage to achieve fluency which of course was a great relief. I had however already spent the previous eighteen years struggling to cope with a stuttering or what is also known as stammering problem that virtually destroyed my entire confidence; it also meant that life was quite tough working where I did as a personal injury claims clerk.

What I did learn and what was eventually a catalyst to enabling me to eradicate the speech impediment was that I needed to start appreciating what I had in life. I had to stop being so hard on myself and at the same time work towards improving the areas of my life that I was not happy with.

I also had to stop stressing, panicking and worrying so much. My whole approach to life had to change; I was now going to start to think in a positive manner.

I was attempting a huge overhaul of the way in which I lived my life, it was far from easy. In the end however the hard work and determination did pay off; I am now able to talk fluently with a new found confidence.

I hope that you will also be able to gain in confidence; I will be happy to help in any way that I can.

As a successful businessmen I am now involved in various projects including one which offers Currys voucher codes. This is a great deal fun and I continue to do this for some time to come.

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June 26, 2009

Techniques You Can Use To Stop Stammering

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: gain confidence, stammer, stammering, stutter, stuttering — jobself @ 5:04 pm

Have you heard about the latest therapy for stammering? This is what is known as specialist stammering therapy. Why? Well because the person who provides the therapy is a person who has had and who more importantly has overcome a stammer.

Steve Hill, aged 35 and from Birmingham, UK, developed a stammer when he was just four years of age. He attended various forms of speech therapy but this did little to help.

Mr Hill had a single life-time goal or ambition which was to some how achieve fluency. Despite being advised to accept the speech impediment that was ruining his life, Steve continued in his quest to find the "solution to stammering".

He was informed on numerous occasions that there is not a cure for stammering however Steve just would not accept second best in life. Negative thinking is for losers is the attitude that he believes in.

Steve eventually managed to overcome his stammer at the age of 22 after formulating his own fluency techniques.

He now teaches these techniques to other people who stutter and does this via a one-to-one speech course. There are also a number of self-help stammering therapy options available for those people who are unable to attend a course; these include an audio-book, an e-book and a DVD.

Stammering and Stuttering affects many people from all over the world. There are many ways to approach such a issue and it is always a good idea to do as much research as possible.

Steve Hill not only offers a potential solution in many formats but also gives people the extra peace of mind of a free telephone consulation that can be booked at any time.

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