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July 23, 2011

Emotional Intelligence & Its Application In Daily Life

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A relatively branch in psychology, Emotional Intelligence has several paradoxical view points. Several writers and experts have defined EI differently. To sum up various variations, EI can be defined as the ability, capacity, skill or, in the case of the trait EI model, a self-perceived ability, to identify, assess, and manage the emotions of one’s self, of others, and of groups”- Bradberry, Travis and Greaves, Jean. (2009).

The science of emotional intelligence allows people to excel in different avenues of life such as social, family and professional arenas. It is necessary to have a positive environment to ensure mental peace and contenment. Individuals who are able to control and channelize their emotions have the ability to understand the emotions of those who they are in contact with.

If one is self aware of their own flaws and drawback then important matter can be resolved without any acrimony or tension. Such a practice not only improves personal relationships but also help get gain in business and professional ventures.

The general belief is that in order to succeed in life one has to be exceptionally intelligent, and those with average intelligence have little scope for professional growth. However, the propagators of EI have denounced this notion and they state that the main criterion of success is the ability to maintain a balance between different aspects of life. The talent to understand ones emotions and of others is perhaps the best way to meet different need of life.

One does not require exceptional level of intelligence to be successful in life. The common belief being that those with average intelligence have little scope with social and professional growth. But the propagators of EI strongly feel that those who are able to strike a balance between different aspects of life are intelligent in real sense.

Sometimes we take stress over household responsibility and maintenance. A person who is emotionally intelligent will act smartly and take preventive in advance to evade major problem at home. One of the basic requirement in the house is to make it electrically safe. Therefore, for regular electrical maintenance in the house electricians in Biloxi may be called. Plumbing related issues can be avoided by summoning professional plumbers for regular maintenance of the water work system, drains and sewer. One such name is the famous plumbers in Biloxi. Taking care of the roof is also part of routine maintenance of the home. For a good inspection of the roof and its maintenance, roofers in Biloxi may be summoned.

To be emotionally intelligent there is a need to make minor changes and modification in life. All that is required is to act wisely in different human relationships of that of boss-employee, husband-wife, brother-sister, parent-children and so on and so forth. It helps in enhancing performance at work, as well as improving personal relationship. Emotional intelligence can also be considered as a very effective tool for good parenting and it will enable mothers and fathers to understand the true emotion of the child, and help them support and guide better.

July 3, 2009

The Stuff You Buy and What It Reveals to the World

In his book called “Emotional Branding : How Successful Brands Gain the Irrational Edge”, Daryl Travis takes a look at the emotional side of business and explains that a brand name is an emotional symbol.

In order to tap into the methodology needed to make this emotional connection between brand and customer requires a little intuitive thinking.

Cars are a perfect example of how the myth of a brand works on the buying public. If all we wanted was to travel from one place to the next, why is there such a multitude of autos in different makes and models? While price certainly plays a role, still there is something else at play here.

How does a BMW or Jaguar make you feel? Why does a Jeep scream adventure or a Porsche precision? Each form of transportation we choose really does say something about us because of the emotional connection we make with that brand.

Geography Brands Us

The idea of emotional branding even includes geography (city, state, province, country, region etc.). We are often branded by others based upon the State we live in.I am branded a “Californian” and will be handled in a particular way by the bias of other non-Californians. Being an American, I am branded and treated as such when I travel outside of the country.The very same would apply to cities. Here’s an example. While chatting with a very nice, talkative salesperson in an upscale department store in San Francisco, it leaked out that my wife and I were from the Oakland area. The clerk’s nose immediately ascended and  the friendly small talk stopped.

Social Class Branding

This notion of associating tangible products with intangible emotions reminds me of what Paul Fussell stated in his 1983 publication “Class, A Guide Through the American Status System”. In it he explains that while the concept of class distinction may be viewed by some as a repugnant commentary on American life, it is nonetheless present whether we care to admit it or not.

The use of class distinction is a universal concept. Regardless of the culture, there are those with more power and more money than others. The wealthy discriminate within their own class distincion.

“Social class” is ultimately indefinable. It’s similar to the idea of what makes something “obscene”. Like Justice Potter Stewart, we as individuals can’t exactly draw the line, “but we know it when we see it”. Class distinction is not just determined by wealth but more importantly by the whole image an individual reveals about themselves.

Try As You Might, You Just Can’t Hide

Everything in our life divulges information about who we really are. What car we drive, the clothes we wear, where we live and work and even how we talk. Incidentally, a business that helps students increase their reading skill used this idea within their own business slogan: “People judge us by the words we use.” Perhaps you have heard of them: “Hooked On Phonics”.

No doubt you remember the old adage, “Don’t judge a book by its cover.” However, it could be said that the insurance industry earns huge profits by “judging covers”. As to discovering who we really are as individuals and checking out our “Table of Contents” they are not even interested. It does seem at first glance that the insurance industry is using prejudice as their method of measuring risk. If you are a male, age 42, living in rural Kansas your auto insurance premiums will be far less than let’s say, a female, age 16 living in New York. If the city you live in has 150,000 people or more living there you will pay higher premiums than if you lived in a city of just 10,000. If you own a Pontiac your insurance premiums will be lower than if you owned a Jaguar. Indeed insurance companies are usefull but the sole reason they stay in business is to make money. Using factual and accurate statistical data they are ensured in attaining those profits.

It’s not solely the insurance industry who engages in this. And you do it as well. In fact, we all think in terms of branding based upon what we “think we know“. You have an opinion (we all do) and because of it you are biased. If you turn down peaches with bruises, you are discriminating against them and practicing segregation by selecting peaches that don’t. In actuality you discriminate against brown, soft spots on fruit. It is who you are that determines what you do and what products you bring home all based on category thinking.

Branding also has the same function, designed to promote expectations and hopefully, positive behavior such as purchasing. Porche is the brand that says: “This is Precision Engineering”. The Budweiser brand sells it myth by essentially saying: “Here’s to you, for being strong, for coming through. The brand creates a myth designed to resonate with their target market. Marketing is all about connecting you with the myth in the hopes of directing your behavior.

The simple conclusion to all of this is: What we do, and what we have are all inseparable from who we are.


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