Self Improvement with Job

September 6, 2010

Creating Abundance And The Awareness Of The Law Of Repulsion

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In the area of creating abundance most of the attention is given to the Law of Attraction. Another law is the Law of Repulsion. I first learned about it when I read How to Solve All of Your Money Problems Forever. Victor Boc, the author, makes the promise stated in the title without a second thought.

The Law of Repulsion is based on a simple premise but very insightful. Many people use the practices of the Law of Attraction without success and wonder what’s wrong. They think the law isn’t working instead of questioning how their behaviors aren’t working. Boc’s teaching of the Law of Repulsion makes perfect sense.

If we can attract something to us, doesn’t it make good sense that we can also repulse it? Naturally, that does make sense, but you’re asking yourself, if you really want something, why would you push it away. By jove, that’s a great question. The answer is that the repulsing occurs for the most part subconsciously.

If something was not stopping the attracting process then all people would have everything they are desiring. Unfortunately, that is not the case. In fact, the majority of people do not attract what they want.

That is when the Law of Repulsion comes into effect. We are capable of sending  confusing messages to the Universe. I desire lots of money, but I also think only greedy people make lots of money. I want people to respect me but I don’t respect myself. I want to be as thin and beautiful as the top models, but I don’t take care of my body.

The piece of the equation that effects this dynamic is the amount of energy that goes into each belief? Does the positive piece receive the most energy or the negative part? It is that simple. Remember that all life is energy. When the positive receives more energy, it is attracting and when the negative is receiving the most it is repelling.

This process is very profound. When we measure with numbers, the best case situation is 100% pulling in and 0% repelling. Neutral is 50/50. We can say that you must pull something to you with a minimum of 51% of the energy. That would be the worst case scenario in attracting. So, the difference is a mere 1% between attracting and repulsing.

Fortunately, we can overcome 1%. How do we do that? We  look at the positives and negatives of what we desire. We make an adjustment in what we do. Is it too simple?

I think we have a tendency to make life hard. We are programmed in so many ways to think we must work hard to have something. That’s how the saying, work smart not hard, came to be.

“It’s not worth having if you don’t work for it.” Tell that to the latest lottery winner. Please don’t misunderstand me. I’m not saying we don’t have to put energy into what we want, but it really can be simple.

Simple is not the same as easy. Einstein had a wonderful quote, “Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler.”

Are you wondering what you’re going to do with this information? Awesome question and here’s an equally great answer. First off, relax with it. Awareness is the first step toward change. Think about something you’ve desired but have not attracted into your reality. Is the Law of Repulsion operating in some way? Make a change remembering that the change could be as small an adjustment as 1%!

Should the change require a bigger  degree, let’s say 49%, do not let it overwhelm you. This is an appropriate time to remember that baby steps are what you need. Be sure to be gentle with yourself and give yourself credit for every step you make toward your desire. When it comes to creating abundance there are two laws, the Law of Attraction and the Law of Repulsion. Use both to your advantage!

August 1, 2010

Creating Abundance By Changing Your Money Messages

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , — jobself @ 1:10 am

Are you wondering why you’re experiencing a lack of money? Are you asking yourself, “Why is there never enough money?” Do you know that you are most often operating from subconscious money messages from your past that influence your actions today? Creating abundance is so doable when you look at your money messages.

Your money beliefs are caused by the money messages you inherited from your past – both conscious and subconscious. Why do I say inherited? A majority of your money messages were inherited from the people in your life who had the greatest effect on you while you were growing up. Perhaps it was your parents, a grandfather, a favorite aunt, a sister,  an educator, or your Sunday school teacher.

In many cases, they didn’t pass these money messages on to you intentionally. They inherited them from adults in their past just like you did and passed them on to you more than likely on a subconscious level. No problem if the money message was of a positive nature. However, a large percent might have been of a negative nature

Because these people were authority figures or role models, you did not question the content of the message. You just took it on like a piece of fine jewelry handed down from one generation to the next. The good news is that you can turn all of the negative messages around once you become consciously aware of what they are, make a decision that they no longer serve you and take steps to change your attitude around each specific money message.

Although we often hold some of the same money messages, this is your journey. I can give you but you will need to discover for yourself what messages operate in your life. Then you can decide which ones can remain or must be eliminated for you to attract financial abundance.

The following are examples of common money messages.

Money doesn’t grow on trees.

There’s never enough.

Rich people are greedy.

Get an education and a job, and you are secure for life.

You can’t be rich and spiritual.

“It’s easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than a rich man to get into heaven.”

Women never make what men make in the same position.

Think about the money messages that have been directing your actions in creating your current financial circumstances of scarcity. Because of the importance of this reflection, set aside time when you will not be distracted. Take as much time as you need. In fact, this process might be like peeling away layers. You address one money message only to reveal one, two or more other money messages lying under the surface that had been covered over by the initial money message.

Begin journaling – choose an attractive journal or create a simple one using a 3 ring binder. An a necessary part of this process is writing down your ideas. By journaling you bring your mental energy into the realm where you are attracting. If you leave them in your mind, they remain elusive. The act of writing makes them solid and managable.

Now you have the information that will make creating abundance in your life a natural event!

Remember…

Abundance Is Your Birthright!

March 9, 2010

Benefiting From the Principles of Abundance

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What exactly is meant by the term ‘manifesting abundance’? In all likelihood you’ve probably heard many people say that life is what you make of it. Perhaps your own parents told you that on several occasions when they were trying to boost your confidence. In fact, even that voice inside our heads tells us that this is indeed true. Unfortunately however, there are just so many people out there who simply refuse to take any notice of what that voice is trying to tell them, and as such, they only have themselves to blame if they’re not happy with their life.

At some point in our lives, we have all heard someone say that we are the masters of our own destiny. We can make our life just as we want it to be. It is within you to manifest abundance, only you can manifest abundance in your own life.

The simple truth is that the reason that the things in your life are the way they are is because you either want things to be this way or that you have not realized that you have the ability to change it by manifesting whatever you want. Anything in your life you are not happy with has almost certainly been put that way by you, not by anyone else. No one but you can create your reality.

The sooner you realize that you are to blame, and that you have carved out our own destiny, the sooner you’ll be in a position where you’ll have enough power to bring about a change. This is because you do have the ability to manifest abundance in your life, and you can start right now simply by changing the way you think.

The most powerful things you have are your thoughts. You create the life you want by the way you think and how you think. All those worrying thoughts of how to pay the bills only creates more bills. When you spend time worrying about money, you only create more money problems for yourself. If you only focus on the bad things in your relationship, you only create more problems within the relationship.

Instead, start to think about the positive things you have in your life. This is the first step to manifesting abundance. Focus on the good things to start with. Think of even the little things; for instance, you have a home to go to, food on your table and so on. If you even have this, you already have a lot to be thankful for. Once you can be grateful for the things you have, you can begin to shift your focus outwards to the good things you want to bring into your life.

There is no point to blaming anyone else for your circumstances. Your life is your own and it is largely if not entirely the product of your own thought processes. Perhaps you want happiness, success or wealth. However, if these are not the things that you focus your thoughts on, they are not what will come to you.

As an illustration, try one of the thought experiments which follow. These will show you the power that your thoughts have. When you change the way that you think about life, you will change your life. You have to stop worrying about money, especially about having enough money or wanting more. Don’t think about any of these things at all. What you should focus on instead is what you already have – think about how you are financially well off enough to pay for the things that you have now.

Another experiment is this: start to think; not only that, believe that you have plenty of financial resources, no matter what you may have thought before. It will take some effort to do this, since you have to keep those old patterns of worrying about money out of your mind. In order to manifest abundance, this is the key – you have to genuinely think that you already have everything you need.

Remember, positive attracts positive, and negative attracts negative. If you spend your time thinking about the good things in your life, you’ll end up attracting more good things, and this of course will mean that you can begin improving the life you have. Above all, you need to realize that you are the only person in the world that can manifest abundance in your life.

January 31, 2010

The Secret Of Abundance Will Make You Successful

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Many individuals all over the world are searching for the means of changing their life. They are searching for the magic that gives them the secret they are missing. They consider once they have this it will give them all they ever wanted. Many of them will spend countless years and money to find it. You are given that secret right now. Your search is finally over. The desire for it consumed your mind and inspired you to keep searching for it and now the universe is offering it to you. Everyone needs abundance in their lives.

First you must understand one thing, an abundant life is not just a life filled with a lot of money. Living an abundant life means that you are fulfilled in the three sections of life, Money, Health and Relationships. While there are many that would disagree and they may even try to tell you that the key to having abundance is an overflowing amount of money, they are wrong.

The secret of abundance is in all three of these components: health, wealth and relationships. Your thoughts and emotions are the real secret to abundance. Your thoughts and emotions work to create your life, since they powerfully influence that which you desire in your life as well as influencing how you life your life right now.

For instance, if you are a multi-millionaire, yet you lack in health with only a few days to live, you spend your days staring at the ceiling, then what good will you get from all that money. If you have good health, but have no one to share your life with, how can health create abundant living? You need all three of these components to live an abundant life.

Some people may shake their heads in disagreement, while telling you this is not true. If it were your thoughts and emotions that determine the secret of abundance, then everyone would be living a life of abundance. This is correct. However, if everyone has such power to create an abundant life, then why is it not happening for everyone, everywhere?

The list of reasons could be rather long, but they all stem from one fundamental issue. People don’t want to live a life of abundance. It is far easier to live the way they are and complain about it. Do you think that Donald Trump has spent one day in his life feeling sorry for himself? Do you think that Bill Gates doubted that he would be a millionaire? The answer is no. No they didn’t, haven’t and won’t. They have had the mindset from the beginning that they would be successful, that they would be the masters of their own lives� that they would live a life of abundance.

There is no reason to believe that the secret is so simple. Remember, everything you see and use started as a thought that someone manifested into reality. The car you drive, the seatbelts you use while driving, the deck you enjoy, the toys your child loves and the space shuttle all started as a thought.

What does this mean to you? It means that starting right now you can create the life you want. What you need to do is decide what it is you want. Be precise, you may even want to write it down. Once you have decide what it is you want, you need to look around your life and be thankful for what you have. It may not be ideal� or exactly what you want, but if you can’t appreciate the things you have then you are never going to have anything better.

Now think about what you want to create in your life. Let the thought consume you. Let it become a burning fire in your heart and soul. Get excited about it. The emotion adds even more power to the thought. So the message that you are sending out into the universe is the equivalent of a Tsunami, not just a little wave. Believe that you are going to have the life you want. Believe that it is coming to you and now make sure that you are doing everything you can to create it.

Hidden inside your mind, thoughts and emotions, is the secret of abundance, when you change the way you think and feel you can create abundance!

December 27, 2009

Hypnosis And How To Develop Abundance

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Many mental, emotional, spiritual and physical benefits accompany the state of abundance. To develop abundance is an internal and external process. In order to heal your life and attract great opportunities, situations and individuals into your life, you will need to do some honest introspection. The process may be challenging; however, the benefits are insurmountable.

How do people know when their lives lack abundance? The most common ‘give away’ is that they are deeply unhappy with some phase or other of their situation. It is often the case that people think of material possessions when they consider abundance. But the truth of the matter is that the people that have accumulated a great deal of personal wealth, but who still remain unhappy, do not experience an abundant life. It is often a sad fact of life that there are many wealthy individuals who despite their wealth have few friends, or do not even trust those that they have, and end up living under fulfilled existences.

So to develop abundance, you need to focus on the way you approach life, including your patterns of thought, your emotional habits and your inner beliefs. However, you can make a significant difference in your life when you are willing to change your manner of thinking and speaking. You will also benefit by developing maturity and emotional responses that are positive.

Although all of us are living in a world that is full of abundance, still it is very annoying that not all people have an abundant life. Perhaps because people tend to neglect the fact that in order to get the abundance full y developed, one should open up the ways through which it will flow. If one will clear the inner being from all the negative emotions and attitudes like unforgiving spirit, worries, anger, guilt, shame, and many more, there is a great possibility that abundance will flow from within.

If we are to experience abundance, we must first confront and defeat our own demons. It is a sad fact that victims become victimized. It’s rather like a self fulfilling prophecy, whereby people expect to be badly done by. They open themselves up to wrong doing, and as a consequence, increase the chances of being wrongly done by. They always fear the worst, and very often, so, it happens. That is why one must be ready to forget the past, and past dealings, and be prepared to treat each new occurrence with a fresh and positive frame of mind, and in that way, true abundance can be achieved.

Developing abundance is in fact developing one’s self. We need to analyze the way that we think, the way that we react to events as they unfold. We need to spot the patterns that our past behavior has fallen into, and we need to be ready to change those patterns, to heal past hurts and open the door to abundance.

Changing your mental and emotional personality may not be easy, but now that there are many available ways and techniques to develop your inner being, there is no reason for you to let this chance pass away. Grab the opportunities and use the therapies like cognitive behavior and energy therapy. These principles will help your emerge from dissatisfied to an abundant person.

Aside from changing your inner being, you also have to develop your outer being. Plan your actions and set your goals so that you can focus more on what you need to prioritize. This way you can move from one level to a higher one.

The road to abundance is trodden via a combination of inner change and outer focus. There are many people who although they are good goal setters and achievers don’t benefit from an abundant life because they simply do not believe or even see it. Having the benefit is no good if you do not know how to appreciate it. It is like having no benefit at all and cannot create happiness or contentment. To truly benefit from abundance you must first be able to recognize it, and second, you must be able to appreciate it.

It is never selfish to live an abundant life developing abundance is worthwhile. It enables an individual to be generous with others. It frees them from their focus of self, which is necessary for survival. Developing abundance is a process that can take time; however, you will find it to be satisfying as well as transforming for you and your community.

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